Tag: raising muslim kids


  • Why Muslim Kids Aren’t Smart

    (And What That Really Says About Us) Let’s talk about the uncomfortable thought we’ve all had at some point: “Why do other kids seem so much smarter?” They speak confidently. They ask deep questions. They seem curious, engaged, driven. Meanwhile, our kids?They’re memorizing facts they don’t understand.They’re praised for sitting quietly, not for thinking critically.And…

  • Raising Kids Through Spirituality Instead of Religion

    Many of us grew up in households where religion became this huge burden.We weren’t doing things for God or a higher power anymore — it became just about pleasing the community, doing what was ‘right’ to elevate social status, and what not. On our way to status and power, a whole generation of parents lost…

  • When You Can’t Get to the Trails, Let the Wonder Come to You

    Nature is one of the clearest signs of God. The sky doesn’t shout it — it just stretches in silence.The cliffs don’t preach — they just are.The wind doesn’t argue — it simply moves, shaping stone over centuries, slowly carving out the land we now stand in awe of. “Indeed, in the creation of the…

  • Kill ’Em with Kindness — The Qur’an Said It First

    We’ve all been there. Someone takes a shot at you.Talks behind your back.Gives you that passive-aggressive comment at a family gathering.Mocks your beliefs. Rolls their eyes at your choices. And the first thought that flashes in your head?“Let me show them who they’re messing with.” But Islam, in that quiet way it does, whispers something…

  • Tawakkul Doesn’t Mean Sitting Around

    “Leave it to Allah.”We’ve all heard it.Some of us grew up with it drilled into our heads. Lost your job? “Have Tawakkul.”Didn’t study for the exam? “Make du’a and have faith.”Didn’t take any action, make any plan, or lift a single finger?“Allah will provide.” And while the intent behind those words might be pure… the…

  • 10 Muslim-Friendly Summer Activities That Don’t Involve Screens

    (Because Faith, Fun, and Family Can Coexist) Summer is here. And for Muslim parents everywhere, that often means one thing:Kids. At home. All. Day. Long. They’re bored.They want entertainment.And if we’re not careful, that means hours of screen time, snacks, and a glazed-over expression. But here’s the truth:You don’t need a packed schedule or Pinterest-perfect…

  • Still Believe, But Don’t Belong? This Is for You.

    Let’s be real. Some of us grew up in homes full of religion — but empty of mercy.Some of us heard more haram police than heartfelt prayer.Some of us were handed long lists of rules… but no space to ask why. So we drifted.Some quietly. Some loudly.But the feeling was the same: “This version of…

  • You’re Not in the Mosque, But You’re Still Facing the Right Direction

    Some people find their peace in the middle of a crowded masjid, shoulder to shoulder, echoing Ameen in unison.And others? Others sit in silence on their balcony at maghrib, eyes closed, whispering a quiet Ya Rabb as the sky fades orange. Both are valid. But only one is usually seen as “good enough.” When You’re…

  • You Can’t Read the Qur’an — It’s Too Complex!

    Wait… didn’t God tell us to read? There’s a phrase we’ve all heard in one form or another: “No, no — don’t read the Qur’an yourself. It’s too complex. Too nuanced. You need a sheikh to interpret it for you.” And listen — let’s get one thing straight: We have deep respect for our scholars.Their…

  • Why So Many Stories Today Feel… Empty

    Let’s just say it:A lot of the stories out there right now are kind of pointless. I’m not talking about the old stuff—we all love a good classic. I’m talking about the flashy, polished, algorithm-fed content kids are consuming today. Books, shows, games. There’s a lot of it. And yet, after it’s over, you ask…